Jon and Kate June 23, 2009

So so sad to hear that they are ending their marriage after ten years. But can I just vent here a little?

What’s been more sad and frustrating for me is to watch other people’s reactions to their situation. Yes, we know a few details of why they are divorcing…but really, what do we know? We know what they say on a 20 minute show once a week. We know what tabloids tell us. And the rest is speculation…and frankly – judgment.

I’m not at all advocating that divorce is the best option for a family, but I’m also not going to get on a soap box and condemn someone else’s choices that I don’t even know. Never spoken to. And even if I had spoken to them, is it the next best thing to do to get on facebook or twitter and proclaim my disapproval for their choice?

I hate this for their kids. But I’m sad for them, too. I don’t think this is what they would have chosen for themselves ten years ago. But who ever does?

I saw the following messages on facebook:
“This will destroy the kids…and they have themselves to thank for it!”
“So are they going to continue the show and follow them as a divorced couple? That’s sick….”
“Yes, they are. It will be great for ratings to watch the kids cry while they try to adjust to their new life. Oh, and then they can add even more drama when the kids get to meet mom/dad’s new boyfriends/girlfriends that are sure to come along.”

WOW. Just seems like a lot of anger for a family in crisis.

There…said my peace.